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    The Ways of Men

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    Chap­ter 26 — Pre-pala­tial New­port brings to light a peri­od of qui­et charm in New­port, long before it became syn­ony­mous with extrav­a­gant man­sions and social grandeur. This chap­ter paints the Ocean House not as a mere hotel, but as a cul­tur­al cor­ner­stone, rep­re­sent­ing a sim­pler time in Amer­i­can leisure his­to­ry. It stood dur­ing an era from 1845 to 1885, when society’s plea­sures were mod­est, refined, and deeply root­ed in com­mu­ni­ty. Fam­i­lies gath­ered for ear­ly din­ners, strolls replaced for­mal engage­ments, and an air of ele­gance was felt with­out need for opu­lence. These cus­toms were not about excess but about mean­ing­ful expe­ri­ences, set­ting a stan­dard of gen­til­i­ty now large­ly lost to time.

    Social life dur­ing this peri­od unfold­ed at an unhur­ried pace, where after­noons were reserved for car­riage dri­ves, read­ing ses­sions, or light gar­den gath­er­ings. The men­tion of “six o’clock din­ners” was once con­sid­ered fash­ion­able and for­ward-think­ing, while “high teas” and “sal­ly lunns” framed the day’s rhythm with rit­u­al and famil­iar­i­ty. Belle­vue Avenue wasn’t yet lined with mar­ble man­sions but served as a scenic path where soci­ety qui­et­ly dis­played its taste and deco­rum. The res­i­dents did not seek lux­u­ry through vol­ume but through culture—classical music, thought­ful con­ver­sa­tion, and civic engage­ment were their evening pur­suits. This old-world charm allowed New­port to thrive with­out grandeur, offer­ing a win­dow into an Amer­i­ca still matur­ing in its iden­ti­ty.

    The Ocean House itself func­tioned as both a social hub and a reflec­tion of pre­vail­ing val­ues. Sat­ur­day evening hops were not just events but tra­di­tions where neigh­bors min­gled with­out pre­tense, and the pres­ence of fam­i­lies gave these gath­er­ings a dis­tinct­ly com­mu­nal tone. The influ­ence of Euro­pean-born res­i­dents slow­ly began intro­duc­ing new sensibilities—grander tastes and more for­mal manners—but the change was grad­ual and not yet over­pow­er­ing. This peri­od of tran­si­tion was felt in sub­tle shifts: import­ed fur­nish­ings, new eti­quette, and evolv­ing views on enter­tain­ment began blend­ing into the social fab­ric. Yet for many, the Ocean House remained a cher­ished emblem of bal­ance, where progress met sim­plic­i­ty with grace.

    Newport’s trans­for­ma­tion didn’t hap­pen all at once. As more afflu­ent indi­vid­u­als dis­cov­ered its coast­line and cli­mate, their desires to repli­cate Euro­pean lux­u­ries brought about a qui­et com­pe­ti­tion of taste. The under­stat­ed ele­gance of pre-pala­tial New­port began giv­ing way to mar­ble façades and elab­o­rate din­ners, grad­u­al­ly eras­ing the inti­ma­cy that once defined the com­mu­ni­ty. The pass­ing of the Ocean House marked more than the loss of a building—it sym­bol­ized the fad­ing of a cul­tur­al epoch. Its ash­es held mem­o­ries of porch con­ver­sa­tions, hand­writ­ten invi­ta­tions, and after­noons that didn’t demand orches­tras or chan­de­liers to be remem­bered.

    In remem­ber­ing New­port’s ear­ly social cus­toms, the chap­ter invites reflec­tion on the nature of progress. The com­forts of sim­plic­i­ty, the dig­ni­ty of restraint, and the beau­ty of shared moments were not symp­toms of depri­va­tion, but signs of thought­ful liv­ing. As New­port grew in pres­tige, it also out­grew cer­tain val­ues that had once made it so unique. Today’s vis­i­tors might mar­vel at the archi­tec­tur­al grandeur, yet miss the warmth of a time when ele­gance was mea­sured by expe­ri­ence rather than expense. The pre-pala­tial New­port lives on only in mem­o­ry, but its ideals can still whis­per through the breeze if one walks those same paths with atten­tive foot­steps.

    What made this chap­ter par­tic­u­lar­ly res­o­nant is its unspo­ken encour­age­ment to reex­am­ine how we define rich­ness in our own lives. In a world that con­stant­ly speeds toward excess, there is wis­dom in look­ing back at peri­ods when less tru­ly was more. New­port’s ear­ly years demon­strate that com­mu­ni­ties flour­ish not through spec­ta­cle but through shared val­ues, mod­est plea­sures, and the will­ing­ness to cel­e­brate life in small, mean­ing­ful ways. Though the Ocean House is gone, its lega­cy endures in the prin­ci­ples it embodied—graceful liv­ing, social con­nect­ed­ness, and a rev­er­ence for time well spent. Its spir­it reminds us that the heart of any great place lies not in what is built, but in how peo­ple come togeth­er with­in it.

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