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    • CHAPTER 40 – Introspection Cover
      by LovelyMay In "Introspection," the final chapter of "Worldly Ways and Byways," the theme revolves around self-reflection, particularly as one year ends and a new one begins. The narrative underscores the natural human inclination to look back on the past, to introspect, and to prepare mentally for future journeys. It draws a poignant analogy between our minds and a grand, but largely unoccupied residence, suggesting that we typically inhabit only a small portion of our vast internal spaces. We populate these familiar…
    • CHAPTER 39 – A Race of Slaves Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 39 of "Worldly Ways and Byways," entitled "A Race of Slaves," the author laments the paradox of Americans, who, despite their global dominance and innovations abroad, submit themselves to petty tyrannies at home. The narrative begins with a critique of American expansionism and innovation in Europe, highlighting achievements such as introducing trolleys and electrifying the Roman catacombs. However, the author quickly shifts focus to the domestic sphere, where Americans, in contrast to their…
    • CHAPTER 31 – Men’s Manners Cover
      by LovelyMay Chapter 31 of "Worldly Ways and Byways" titled "Men's Manners" delves into the evolution of men’s manners over different generations, as observed by the author, who feels a disconnect from the emerging etiquettes of younger men. The chapter begins with a nostalgic reflection on how manners have shifted from the author's youth to the present, emphasizing a perceived improvement in young men's politeness and respectfulness. The author reminisces about three distinct periods in men's manners, beginning with…
    • CHAPTER 28 – A Nation on the Wing Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 28, "A Nation on the Wing," from "Worldly Ways and Byways," the author reflects on the transient nature of life and home ownership among the affluent at the turn of the century. He begins with a personal anecdote about being shown around a newly-built, large residence by its owner, who has designed it with the future possibility of converting it into an apartment house in mind. This planning reflects a forward-thinking, albeit somewhat dispassionate approach to what is traditionally seen as a…
    • CHAPTER 18 – A Rock Ahead Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 18, "A Rock Ahead," of "Worldly Ways and Byways," the narrator reflects on the societal role and positioning of women in America, contrasting it unfavorably with the more integrated roles women play in the lives and businesses of their husbands in Europe. While wandering near the bustling stores of Twenty-third Street, the narrator observes a constant stream of women engaging in seemingly endless shopping, which he views as a sad commentary on their misplaced priorities and disconnectedness from…
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    • CHAPTER 16 – A Holy Land Cover
      by LovelyMay In "A Holy Land," the author reminisces about a cherished region around Grant's tomb, humorously dubbed the "Holy Land," which holds profound personal significance and childhood memories. This area, described as a playground of youth and a repository of sweet ties to the past, serves as a backdrop for a narrative intertwining history, personal experiences, and the encroachment of modern development on cherished spaces. The narrative weaves in the legend of the vanished city of "Is," drawing parallels to…
    • CHAPTER 15 – A False Start Cover
      by LovelyMay "Worldly Ways and Byways" chapter 15 entitled, "A False Start" delves into the contrast between American men and women in cosmopolitan and sophisticated circles. The author praises American women for their grace and tact, whereas American men are seen as lacking in many social graces. The narrative contends that this discrepancy stems from a flawed approach to the education and ambitions directed towards young American men. The historical backdrop of rapid post-war economic growth led to an overemphasis on…
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    • CHAPTER 9 – Social Suggestion Cover
      by LovelyMay Chapter 9 of "Worldly Ways and Byways" titled "Social Suggestion" delves into the subtle yet profound influence of social contexts and company on individual tastes, opinions, and behaviors. It opens with a contemplation of how unseen forces shape our perceptions of success and failure, extending this inquiry to the realms of entertainment, art, and fashion. The chapter illustrates through anecdotal evidence how one's environment and companions can dramatically sway one's appreciation for a theater piece or…
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    • CHAPTER 8 – Slouch Cover
      by LovelyMay Chapter 8 of "Worldly Ways and Byways" addresses the pervasive issue of slouch or general untidiness and lack of pride in one's appearance and surroundings in America, contrasting it significantly with the tidiness and pride observed in the people and places of Europe. The author passionately advocates for a cultural shift towards neatness and self-respect, suggesting that this change should begin in schools and extend to all public spaces and professions. Through anecdotes and observations, the author…
    • CHAPTER 7 – The Discontent of Talent Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 7, "The Discontent of Talent," of "Worldly Ways and Byways," the author explores the contrast between the complacency of the ordinary and the restless pursuit of improvement that characterizes the talented. The chapter opens with a critique of self-satisfied individuals who resist change and view their own customs and surroundings as beyond critique. This complacency is notably absent among the more gifted or imaginative, a group which includes well-traveled individuals. Such experiences of…
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