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    • CHAPTER 13 – Some American Husbands Cover
      by LovelyMay Chapter 13 titled "Some American Husbands" from "The Ways of Men" contrasts the historical roles of men and women with the changing dynamics in modern American households. Traditionally, men were the dominant, colorful figures, providers, and protectors, while women were confined to caretaking roles. However, the last century has seen a substantial shift in these dynamics, especially in America, where the husband often finds himself in what the chapter describes as a state of "bondage" due to the…
    • CHAPTER 12 – The Paris of our Grandparents Cover
      by LovelyMay In "The Paris of our Grandparents," the chapter delves deeply into the profound transformations Paris has undergone since the mid-19th Century, illustrating these shifts through vivid personal anecdotes and historical insights. This narrative unfolds as the author explores Parisian life and landmarks with an elderly lady who reminisces about her youth, blending personal history with the broader evolution of the city's landscape. Paris, once confined to areas well within landmarks like the rue Royale and…
    • CHAPTER 11 – A Cry For Fresh Air Cover
      by LovelyMay The story begins with a familiar fairy tale where a disgruntled old witch curses a princess’s life, turning blessings into burdens. This serves as a metaphor for the state of modern society, where the gifts of science and industry, intended to improve life, have instead caused harm. The discovery of central heating, once unimaginable to the courtiers of Louis XIV, has transformed from an extravagant luxury into an essential part of life. But this change begs the question: has it been beneficial,…
    • CHAPTER 10 – CALVE at Cabrieres Cover
      by LovelyMay Upon visiting Madame Calve at her picturesque home in Cabrieres during a "cure" in the Cevennes Mountains, the narrator recounts the transformation of the once sensuous Carmen into a figure of serenity. Calve, delighted to return to her roots, has devoted her home and resources to the convalescence of Parisian hospital girls, offering them fresh air, simple food, and the healing powers of sunlight, a remedy that once saved her own life. The arrival at Calve’s chateau brings the narrator into a collective…
    • CHAPTER 9 – “Climbers” in England Cover
      by LovelyMay Chapter 9 of "The Ways of Men" delves into the peculiar social dynamics of English society vis-à-vis American adventurers and the titled English class, painting a vivid portrait of the aspirations, misconceptions, and cultural clashes that transpire when Americans attempt to integrate into the elite circles of England. The term "Little Englander" encapsulates the insular attitude of English society towards foreigners, including Americans, highlighting a sense of superiority and exclusivity based on one's…
    • CHAPTER 8 – Idling in Mid-Ocean Cover
      by LovelyMay In "Idling in Mid-Ocean," the author explores the tranquil and transformative experience of a transatlantic voyage, away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. As the ship moves through the vast, jade-colored ocean, the author finds themselves relishing in the sheer novelty and peacefulness of their surroundings, where the typical concerns of life on land seem distant and irrelevant. This chapter paints a picture of serene detachment and introspection, underscored by the leisurely pace of life aboard…
    • CHAPTER 7 – Worldly Color-Blindness Cover
      by LovelyMay Chapter 7 of "The Ways of Men," entitled "Worldly Color-Blindness," draws a parallel between the literal inability to discern colors and tones and a metaphorical lack of discernment in social settings. The author presents a critical view of those who, despite good intentions, fail to understand the subtleties of social gatherings, resulting in uncomfortable and unenjoyable events. The text opens with an analogy to physical color-blindness and tone-deafness, mentioning individuals who, despite these…
    • CHAPTER 6 – Modern Architecture Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 6 of "The Ways of Men," titled "Modern Architecture," the narrative opens with a foreign tourist's hypothetical first encounter with New York's skyline, described as both chaotic and enchantingly wild at twilight yet dishearteningly graceless by daylight. This dichotomy underscores the broader critique of the city's contemporary architectural ethos, contrasting sharply with the classical beauty and proportionality revered by past critics and architects. The author employs vivid analogies,…
    • CHAPTER 5 – Parnassus Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 5 titled "Parnassus" of "The Ways of Men," the narrator recounts an enlightening encounter with Sainte-Beuve, a paramount writer and critic of the century, in his Paris home on rue Montparnasse. This memorable visit captured through youthful eyes eventually matures into a cherished memory, reinforced by the narrator’s growing admiration for Sainte-Beuve’s work. The narrative weaves through the years, tracing the narrator's return to Paris, the transformations of the city, and his reverence…
    • CHAPTER 4 – Machine-made Men Cover
      by LovelyMay In Chapter 4 of "The Ways of Men," entitled "Machine-made Men," the narrator humorously laments the overcomplication of modern life due to an obsession with patents and inventions. The narrative begins with the narrator's anticipation being dashed upon opening what appeared to be a personal letter, only to discover it was an advertisement for patent suspenders and paper collars. This disappointment leads to a broader critique of how society is rapidly becoming a "paradise of the cheap and nasty," where…
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