The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)
Be Impeccable with Your Word
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THE FIRST AGREEMENT
Be Impeccable with Your Word
THE FIRST AGREEMENT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE and
also the most difficult one to honor. It is so important that with just
this first agreement you will be able to transcend to the level of
existence I call heaven on earth.
The first agreement is to be impeccable with your word. It sounds
very simple, but it is very, very powerful.
Why your word? Your word is the power that you have to create.
Your word is the gift that comes directly from God. The Gospel of
John in the Bible, speaking of the creation of the universe, says, “In
the beginning was the word, and the word was with God, and the
word is God.” Through the word you express your creative power. It
is through the word that you manifest everything. Regardless of what
language you speak, your intent manifests through the word. What
you dream, what you feel, and what you really are, will all be
manifested through the word.
The word is not just a sound or a written symbol. The word is a
force; it is the power you have to express and communicate, to think,
and thereby to create the events in your life. You can speak. What
other animal on the planet can speak? The word is the most
powerful tool you have as a human; it is the tool of magic. But like a
sword with two edges, your word can create the most beautiful
dream, or your word can destroy everything around you. One edge is
the misuse of the word, which creates a living hell. The other edge is
the impeccability of the word, which will only create beauty, love, and
heaven on earth. Depending upon how it is used, the word can set
you free, or it can enslave you even more than you know. All the
magic you possess is based on your word. Your word is pure magic,
and misuse of your word is black magic.
The word is so powerful that one word can change a life or destroy
the lives of millions of people. Some years ago one man in Germany,
by the use of the word, manipulated a whole country of the most
intelligent people. He led them into a world war with just the power of
his word. He convinced others to commit the most atrocious acts of
violence. He activated people’s fear with the word, and like a big
explosion, there was killing and war all around the world. All over the
world humans destroyed other humans because they were afraid of
each other. Hitler’s word, based on fear-generated beliefs and
agreements, will be remembered for centuries.
The human mind is like a fertile ground where seeds are
continually being planted. The seeds are opinions, ideas, and
concepts. You plant a seed, a thought, and it grows. The word is like
a seed, and the human mind is so fertile! The only problem is that
too often it is fertile for the seeds of fear. Every human mind is fertile,
but only for those kinds of seeds it is prepared for. What is important
is to see which kind of seeds our mind is fertile for, and to prepare it
to receive the seeds of love.
Take the example of Hitler: He sent out all those seeds of fear, and
they grew very strong and beautifully achieved massive destruction.
Seeing the awesome power of the word, we must understand what
power comes out of our mouths. One fear or doubt planted in our
mind can create an endless drama of events. One word is like a
spell, and humans use the word like black magicians, thoughtlessly
putting spells on each other.
Every human is a magician, and we can either put a spell on
someone with our word or we can release someone from a spell. We
cast spells all the time with our opinions. An example: I see a friend
and give him an opinion that just popped into my mind. I say,
“Hmmm! I see that kind of color in your face in people who are going
to get cancer.” If he listens to the word, and if he agrees, he will have
cancer in less than one year. That is the power of the word.
During our domestication, our parents and siblings gave their
opinions about us without even thinking. We believed these opinions
and we lived in fear over these opinions, like not being good at
swimming, or sports, or writing. Someone gives an opinion and says,
“Look, this girl is ugly!” The girl listens, believes she is ugly, and
grows up with the idea that she is ugly. It doesn’t matter how
beautiful she is; as long as she has that agreement, she will believe
that she is ugly. That is the spell she is under.
By hooking our attention, the word can enter our mind and change
a whole belief for better or for worse. Another example: You may
believe you are stupid, and you may have believed this for as long
as you can remember. This agreement can be very tricky, causing
you to do a lot of things just to ensure that you are stupid. You may
do something and think to yourself, “I wish I were smart, but I must
be stupid or I wouldn’t have done that.” The mind goes in hundreds
of different directions, and we could spend days getting hooked by
just that one belief in our own stupidity.
Then one day someone hooks your attention and using the word,
lets you know that you are not stupid. You believe what the person
says and make a new agreement. As a result, you no longer feel or
act stupid. A whole spell is broken, just by the power of the word.
Conversely, if you believe you are stupid, and someone hooks your
attention and says, “Yes, you are really the most stupid person I
have ever met,” the agreement will be reinforced and become even
stronger.
Now let us see what the word impeccability means. Impeccability
means “without sin.” Impeccable comes from the Latin pecatus,
which means “sin.” The im in impeccable means “without,” so
impeccable means “without sin.” Religions talk about sin and
sinners, but let’s understand what it really means to sin. A sin is
anything that you do which goes against yourself. Everything you
feel or believe or say that goes against yourself is a sin. You go
against yourself when you judge or blame yourself for anything.
Being without sin is exactly the opposite. Being impeccable is not
going against yourself. When you are impeccable, you take
responsibility for your actions, but you do not judge or blame
yourself.
From this point of view, the whole concept of sin changes from
something moral or religious to something commonsense. Sin
begins with rejection of yourself. Self-rejection is the biggest sin that
you commit. In religious terms self-rejection is a “mortal sin,” which
leads to death. Impeccability, on the other hand, leads to life.
Being impeccable with your word is not using the word against
yourself. If I see you in the street and I call you stupid, it appears that
I’m using the word against you. But really I’m using my word against
myself, because you’re going to hate me for this, and your hating me
is not good for me. Therefore, if I get angry and with my word send
all that emotional poison to you, I’m using the word against myself.
If I love myself I will express that love in my interactions with you,
and then I am being impeccable with the word, because that action
will produce a like reaction. If I love you, then you will love me. If I
insult you, you will insult me. If I have gratitude for you, you will have
gratitude for me. If I’m selfish with you, you will be selfish with me. If I
use the word to put a spell on you, you are going to put a spell on
me.
Being impeccable with your word is the correct use of your energy;
it means to use your energy in the direction of truth and love for
yourself. If you make an agreement with yourself to be impeccable
with your word, just with that intention, the truth will manifest through
you and clean all the emotional poison that exists within you. But
making this agreement is difficult because we have learned to do
precisely the opposite. We have learned to lie as a habit of our
communication with others and more importantly with ourselves. We
are not impeccable with the word.
The power of the word is completely misused in hell. We use the
word to curse, to blame, to find guilt, to destroy. Of course, we also
use it in the right way, but not too often. Mostly we use the word to
spread our personal poison — to express anger, jealousy, envy, and
hate. The word is pure magic — the most powerful gift we have as
humans — and we use it against ourselves. We plan revenge. We
create chaos with the word. We use the word to create hate between
different races, between different people, between families, between
nations. We misuse the word so often, and this misuse is how we
create and perpetuate the dream of hell. Misuse of the word is how
we pull each other down and keep each other in a state of fear and
doubt. Because the word is the magic that humans possess and
misuse of the word is black magic, we are using black magic all the
time without knowing that our word is magic at all.
There was a woman, for example, who was intelligent and had a
very good heart. She had a daughter whom she adored and loved
very much. One night she came home from a very bad day at work,
tired, full of emotional tension, and with a terrible headache. She
wanted peace and quiet, but her daughter was singing and jumping
happily. The daughter was unaware of how her mother was feeling;
she was in her own world, in her own dream. She felt so wonderful,
and she was jumping and singing louder and louder, expressing her
joy and her love. She was singing so loud that it made her mother’s
headache even worse, and at a certain moment, the mother lost
control. Angrily she looked at her beautiful little girl and said, “Shut
up! You have an ugly voice. Can you just shut up!”
The truth is that the mother’s tolerance for any noise was
nonexistent; it was not that the little girl’s voice was ugly. But the
daughter believed what her mother said, and in that moment she
made an agreement with herself. After that she no longer sang,
because she believed her voice was ugly and would bother anyone
who heard it. She became shy at school, and if she was asked to
sing, she refused. Even speaking to others became difficult for her.
Everything changed in the little girl because of this new agreement:
She believed she must repress her emotions in order to be accepted
and loved.
Whenever we hear an opinion and believe it, we make an
agreement, and it becomes part of our belief system. This little girl
grew up, and even though she had a beautiful voice, she never sang
again. She developed a whole complex from one spell. This spell
was cast upon her by the one who loved her the most: her own
mother. Her mother didn’t notice what she did with her word. She
didn’t notice that she used black magic and put a spell on her
daughter. She didn’t know the power of her word, and therefore she
isn’t to blame. She did what her own mother, father, and others had
done to her in many ways. They misused the word.
How many times do we do this with our own children? We give
them these types of opinions and our children carry that black magic
for years and years. People who love us do black magic on us, but
they don’t know what they do. That is why we must forgive them;
they don’t know what they do.
Another example: You awake in the morning feeling very happy.
You feel so wonderful, you stay one or two hours in front of the
mirror, making yourself beautiful. Well, one of your best friends says,
“What has happened to you? You look so ugly. Look at the dress you
are wearing; you look ridiculous.” That’s it; that is enough to put you
all the way down in hell. Maybe this girlfriend just told you this to hurt
you. And, she did. She gave you an opinion with all the power of her
word behind it. If you accept the opinion, it becomes an agreement
now, and you put all your power into that opinion. That opinion
becomes black magic.
These types of spells are difficult to break. The only thing that can
break a spell is to make a new agreement based on truth. The truth
is the most important part of being impeccable with your word. On
one side of the sword are the lies which create black magic, and on
the other side of the sword is the truth which has the power to break
the spell of black magic. Only the truth will set us free.
Looking at everyday human interactions, imagine how many times
we cast spells on each other with our word. Over time this interaction
has become the worst form of black magic, and we call it gossip.
Gossip is black magic at its very worst because it is pure poison.
We learned how to gossip by agreement. When we were children,
we heard the adults around us gossiping all the time, openly giving
their opinions about other people. They even had opinions about
people they didn’t know. Emotional poison was transferred along
with the opinions, and we learned this as the normal way to
communicate.
Gossiping has become the main form of communication in human
society. It has become the way we feel close to each other, because
it makes us feel better to see someone else feel as badly as we do.
There is an old expression that says, “Misery likes company,” and
people who are suffering in hell don’t want to be all alone. Fear and
suffering are an important part of the dream of the planet; they are
how the dream of the planet keeps us down.
Using the analogy of the human mind as a computer, gossip can
be compared to a computer virus. A computer virus is a piece of
computer language written in the same language all the other codes
are written in, but with a harmful intent. This code is inserted into the
program of your computer when you least expect it and most of the
time without your awareness. After this code has been introduced,
your computer doesn’t work quite right, or it doesn’t function at all
because the codes get so mixed up with so many conflicting
messages that it stops producing good results.
Human gossip works exactly the same way. For example, you are
beginning a new class with a new teacher and you have looked
forward to it for a long time. On the first day of class, you run into
someone who took the class before, who tells you, “Oh that
instructor was such a pompous jerk! He didn’t know what he was
talking about, and he was a pervert too, so watch out!”
You are immediately imprinted with the word and the emotional
code the person had when saying this, but what you are not aware of
is his or her motivation in telling you. This person could be angry for
failing the class or simply making an assumption based on fears and
prejudices, but because you have learned to ingest information like a
child, some part of you believes the gossip, and you go on to the
class. As the teacher speaks, you feel the poison come up inside
you and you don’t realize you see the teacher through the eyes of
the person who gave you that gossip. Then you start talking to other
people in the class about this, and they start to see the teacher in the
same way: as a jerk and a pervert. You really hate the class, and
soon you decide to drop out. You blame the teacher, but it is gossip
that is to blame.
All of this mess can be caused by one little computer virus. One
little piece of misinformation can break down communication
between people, causing every person it touches to become infected
and contagious to others. Imagine that every single time others
gossip to you, they insert a computer virus into your mind, causing
you to think a little less clearly every time. Then imagine that in an
effort to clean up your own confusion and get some relief from the
poison, you gossip and spread these viruses to someone else.
Now imagine this pattern going on in a never-ending chain
between all the humans on earth. The result is a world full of humans
who can only read information through circuits that are clogged with
a poisonous, contagious virus. Once again, this poisonous virus is
what the Toltecs called the mitote, the chaos of a thousand different
voices all trying to talk at once in the mind.
Even worse are the black magicians or “computer hackers” who
intentionally spread the virus. Think back to a time when you or
someone you know was angry with someone else and desired
revenge. In order to seek revenge you said something to or about
that person with the intention of spreading poison and making that
person feel bad about him- or herself. As children we do this quite
thoughtlessly, but as we grow older we become much more
calculated in our efforts to bring other people down. Then we lie to
ourselves and say that person received a just punishment for their
wrongdoing.
When we see the world through a computer virus, it is easy to
justify the cruelest behavior. What we don’t see is that misuse of our
word is putting us deeper into hell.
For years we have received the gossip and spells from the words
of others, but also from the way we use our word with ourselves. We
talk to ourselves constantly and most of the time we say things like,
“Oh, I look fat, I look ugly. I’m getting old, I’m losing my hair. I’m
stupid, I never understand anything. I will never be good enough,
and I’m never going to be perfect.” Do you see how we use the word
against ourselves? We must begin to understand what the word is
and what the word does. If you understand the first agreement, be
impeccable with your word, you begin to see all the changes that can
happen in your life. Changes first in the way you deal with yourself,
and later in the way you deal with other people, especially those you
love the most.
Consider how many times you have gossiped about the person
you love the most to gain the support of others for your point of view.
How many times have you hooked other people’s attention, and
spread poison about your loved one in order to make your opinion
right? Your opinion is nothing but your point of view. It is not
necessarily true. Your opinion comes from your beliefs, your own
ego, and your own dream. We create all this poison and spread it to
others just so we can feel right about our own point of view.
If we adopt the first agreement, and become impeccable with our
word, any emotional poison will eventually be cleaned from our mind
and from our communication in our personal relationships, including
with our pet dog or cat.
Impeccability of the word will also give you immunity from anyone
putting a negative spell on you. You will only receive a negative idea
if your mind is fertile ground for that idea. When you become
impeccable with your word, your mind is no longer fertile ground for
words that come from black magic. Instead, it is fertile for the words
that come from love. You can measure the impeccability of your word
by your level of self-love. How much you love yourself and how you
feel about yourself are directly proportionate to the quality and
integrity of your word. When you are impeccable with your word, you
feel good; you feel happy and at peace.
You can transcend the dream of hell just by making the agreement
to be impeccable with your word. Right now I am planting that seed
in your mind. Whether or not the seed grows depends upon how
fertile your mind is for the seeds of love. It is up to you to make this
agreement with yourself: I am impeccable with my word. Nurture this
seed, and as it grows in your mind, it will generate more seeds of
love to replace the seeds of fear. This first agreement will change the
kind of seeds your mind is fertile for.
Be impeccable with your word. This is the first agreement that you
should make if you want to be free, if you want to be happy, if you
want to transcend the level of existence that is hell. It is very
powerful. Use the word in the correct way. Use the word to share
your love. Use white magic, beginning with yourself. Tell yourself
how wonderful you are, how great you are. Tell yourself how much
you love yourself. Use the word to break all those teeny, tiny
agreements that make you suffer.
It is possible. It is possible because I did it, and I am no better than
you. No, we are exactly the same. We have the same kind of brain,
the same kind of bodies; we are humans. If I was able to break those
agreements and create new agreements, then you can do the same.
If I can be impeccable with my word, why not you? Just this one
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