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Sunday 21st July 2019
by Alderton, DollyThe chapter opens with the narrator waking up disoriented in Avi’s bed, wearing unfamiliar clothes and nursing a hangover. Avi, cheerful but clearly still affected by the previous night’s drinking, explains their swapped sleeping arrangements as a drunken joke. Despite Avi’s casual attitude, the narrator feels uneasy and confused about the night’s events, especially regarding the missing clothes and the strange choice of underwear. The morning unfolds with a mix of humor and discomfort, setting a tone of uncertainty and mild frustration that colors the narrator’s reflections on the aftermath of a heavy night out.
As the narrator tries to recover, he listens to a podcast about motherhood during a long, nauseating shower, highlighting his low point. Later, with Avi, he orders an expensive KFC meal and watches a Harry Potter film in silence, signaling a subdued day. The arrival of Jane and the boys introduces a brief distraction, but the narrator remains too unwell to engage deeply. A Sunday night tube journey leads to Emery, whose drunken insights on male-female relationship dynamics provide a cynical but humorous commentary on break-up behaviors, revealing the narrator’s ongoing struggles with personal relationships.
Emery’s onstage drunken comedy performance contrasts sharply with the narrator’s quieter, more introspective style. The narrator senses his set falling flat after Emery’s energetic act, reflecting on the different ways success and failure feel in comedy. This moment underscores the narrator’s internal conflict between his artistic identity and audience expectations, as well as the broader theme of coping with disappointment. The journey back to London continues with light-hearted banter about self-improvement, revealing the narrator’s desire to connect more with his physical self and escape his habitual overthinking.
The chapter concludes with a candid conversation about personal change, where the narrator expresses his wish to live more in his body rather than just his mind. Emery’s skeptical response adds a layer of humor but also highlights the narrator’s vulnerability. The narrator’s glance at his phone, checking Instagram message requests, subtly suggests his ongoing search for connection and validation amid his internal and social struggles. Overall, the chapter blends humor, introspection, and social interactions to paint a vivid picture of a man grappling with the complexities of adulthood, friendship, and self-identity.
FAQs
1. How does the narrator describe his physical and mental state upon waking up on Sunday 21st July 2019, and what does this reveal about his situation?
Answer:
The narrator wakes up in an unfamiliar bed—Avi’s—wearing Avi’s tracksuit bottoms and unfamiliar underwear, with no memory of how he got there. He experiences a severe hangover, indicated by his physical discomfort and vomiting later in the shower. This disorientation and physical malaise reveal that he had a heavy night of drinking, leading to a loss of control over his environment and actions. It also sets a tone of vulnerability and confusion that permeates the chapter, highlighting themes of uncertainty and the consequences of indulgence.2. What role does Avi play in the narrator’s experience of the previous night and the following day?
Answer:
Avi acts as both a caretaker and a companion. He is the one who organized the night out involving balloons and drinks, and upon the narrator’s waking, Avi is making tea and tries to reassure him about the events of the night. Avi’s cheerful attitude contrasts with the narrator’s confusion and hangover, and his explanation about swapping beds “for a laugh” suggests a close friendship with a casual, laid-back dynamic. Avi’s presence helps the narrator piece together the fragmented memories and provides a sense of stability amid the chaos.3. Analyze the significance of the conversation between the narrator and Emery regarding break-up behaviors of men and women. What does this reveal about their perspectives on relationships?
Answer:
The conversation with Emery introduces a cynical, generalized theory about heterosexual break-ups, suggesting men and women have fundamentally incompatible emotional recovery patterns. Emery’s claim that men initially hate, then miss and love their exes, while women do the opposite, reflects a somewhat humorous but bleak view of romantic relationships. This dialogue reveals both characters’ struggles with love and break-ups; the narrator is trying to make sense of his own situation with Jen, while Emery’s drunken rant underscores his disillusionment. It highlights themes of misunderstanding and emotional complexity in relationships.4. How does the narrator’s experience on stage contrast with Emery’s performance, and what does this contrast suggest about their personalities and careers?
Answer:
Emery’s stage presence is described as chaotic, drunken, and anarchic, with his comedy style thriving on ranting, repetition, and expletives, which the audience loves. In contrast, the narrator’s gentler, more reflective material about the difficulties of socializing in one’s thirties falls flat with an audience still energized by Emery’s wild act. This contrast suggests Emery is more extroverted and thrives on raw energy and spectacle, while the narrator adopts a more introspective, nuanced approach. It also reflects the challenges of balancing different comedic styles and audience expectations, and hints at the narrator’s insecurities about his own career trajectory.5. What does the narrator’s contemplation of hiring a personal trainer reveal about his self-perception and desire for change?
Answer:
The narrator’s consideration of a personal trainer indicates a desire to reconnect with his physical self and improve his well-being, moving beyond his usual mental preoccupations. He expresses feeling like “a brain in a jar with no limbs,” highlighting a disconnect between his mind and body. This moment reveals his awareness of a need for balance and transformation, not just externally but internally—wanting to “live in my body” as well as his head. It also shows a self-critical but hopeful attitude toward self-improvement, despite Emery’s mocking of the idea as “bourgeois.” This reflects broader themes of identity, self-care, and personal growth.
Quotes
1. “Heterosexual men and women are not well-matched. There was a factory fault when God, whoever she is, made them with the hopes of compatibility.”
This quote, delivered by Emery, captures a central reflection on male-female relationships and their inherent difficulties. It introduces the theme of relational incompatibility that underpins the narrator’s personal struggles, setting a philosophical tone for the chapter’s exploration of break-ups and emotional patterns.
2. “When men and women break up, men hate everything about their ex-girlfriend for three months, and then they miss her, and then they think they love her, and that’s when they text her. Meanwhile, she has spent three months loving him and then she hates his guts forever.”
This quote elaborates on the “reverse break-up schedules” theory, offering a sharp, memorable insight into gendered emotional responses post-breakup. It highlights the complexity and asymmetry of emotional recovery, which is a key argument in the chapter’s examination of romantic relationships.
3. “I’m someone who lives in their head, I’d like to at least try to live in my body too.”
This line expresses the narrator’s desire for a shift from intellectual or emotional overthinking toward a more embodied, physical experience of life. It represents an important turning point in the chapter where the narrator contemplates personal change and self-care beyond mental preoccupations.
4. “There are hundreds of different ways to feel good when a gig goes well. And only one way to feel bad when a gig goes badly.”
Here, the narrator reflects on the nature of success and failure in his comedy career, providing a poignant insight into the emotional stakes of performance. This quote metaphorically underscores the chapter’s broader themes about the challenges of managing personal and professional highs and lows.
Quotes
1. “Heterosexual men and women are not well-matched. There was a factory fault when God, whoever she is, made them with the hopes of compatibility.”
This quote, delivered by Emery, captures a central reflection on male-female relationships and their inherent difficulties. It introduces the theme of relational incompatibility that underpins the narrator’s personal struggles, setting a philosophical tone for the chapter’s exploration of break-ups and emotional patterns.
2. “When men and women break up, men hate everything about their ex-girlfriend for three months, and then they miss her, and then they think they love her, and that’s when they text her. Meanwhile, she has spent three months loving him and then she hates his guts forever.”
This quote elaborates on the “reverse break-up schedules” theory, offering a sharp, memorable insight into gendered emotional responses post-breakup. It highlights the complexity and asymmetry of emotional recovery, which is a key argument in the chapter’s examination of romantic relationships.
3. “I’m someone who lives in their head, I’d like to at least try to live in my body too.”
This line expresses the narrator’s desire for a shift from intellectual or emotional overthinking toward a more embodied, physical experience of life. It represents an important turning point in the chapter where the narrator contemplates personal change and self-care beyond mental preoccupations.
4. “There are hundreds of different ways to feel good when a gig goes well. And only one way to feel bad when a gig goes badly.”
Here, the narrator reflects on the nature of success and failure in his comedy career, providing a poignant insight into the emotional stakes of performance. This quote metaphorically underscores the chapter’s broader themes about the challenges of managing personal and professional highs and lows.
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FAQs
1. How does the narrator describe his physical and mental state upon waking up on Sunday 21st July 2019, and what does this reveal about his situation?
Answer:
The narrator wakes up in an unfamiliar bed—Avi’s—wearing Avi’s tracksuit bottoms and unfamiliar underwear, with no memory of how he got there. He experiences a severe hangover, indicated by his physical discomfort and vomiting later in the shower. This disorientation and physical malaise reveal that he had a heavy night of drinking, leading to a loss of control over his environment and actions. It also sets a tone of vulnerability and confusion that permeates the chapter, highlighting themes of uncertainty and the consequences of indulgence.
2. What role does Avi play in the narrator’s experience of the previous night and the following day?
Answer:
Avi acts as both a caretaker and a companion. He is the one who organized the night out involving balloons and drinks, and upon the narrator’s waking, Avi is making tea and tries to reassure him about the events of the night. Avi’s cheerful attitude contrasts with the narrator’s confusion and hangover, and his explanation about swapping beds “for a laugh” suggests a close friendship with a casual, laid-back dynamic. Avi’s presence helps the narrator piece together the fragmented memories and provides a sense of stability amid the chaos.
3. Analyze the significance of the conversation between the narrator and Emery regarding break-up behaviors of men and women. What does this reveal about their perspectives on relationships?
Answer:
The conversation with Emery introduces a cynical, generalized theory about heterosexual break-ups, suggesting men and women have fundamentally incompatible emotional recovery patterns. Emery’s claim that men initially hate, then miss and love their exes, while women do the opposite, reflects a somewhat humorous but bleak view of romantic relationships. This dialogue reveals both characters’ struggles with love and break-ups; the narrator is trying to make sense of his own situation with Jen, while Emery’s drunken rant underscores his disillusionment. It highlights themes of misunderstanding and emotional complexity in relationships.
4. How does the narrator’s experience on stage contrast with Emery’s performance, and what does this contrast suggest about their personalities and careers?
Answer:
Emery’s stage presence is described as chaotic, drunken, and anarchic, with his comedy style thriving on ranting, repetition, and expletives, which the audience loves. In contrast, the narrator’s gentler, more reflective material about the difficulties of socializing in one’s thirties falls flat with an audience still energized by Emery’s wild act. This contrast suggests Emery is more extroverted and thrives on raw energy and spectacle, while the narrator adopts a more introspective, nuanced approach. It also reflects the challenges of balancing different comedic styles and audience expectations, and hints at the narrator’s insecurities about his own career trajectory.
5. What does the narrator’s contemplation of hiring a personal trainer reveal about his self-perception and desire for change?
Answer:
The narrator’s consideration of a personal trainer indicates a desire to reconnect with his physical self and improve his well-being, moving beyond his usual mental preoccupations. He expresses feeling like “a brain in a jar with no limbs,” highlighting a disconnect between his mind and body. This moment reveals his awareness of a need for balance and transformation, not just externally but internally—wanting to “live in my body” as well as his head. It also shows a self-critical but hopeful attitude toward self-improvement, despite Emery’s mocking of the idea as “bourgeois.” This reflects broader themes of identity, self-care, and personal growth.
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